So i have this post that i have been debating over posting it or not because most of the people who look at my blog are family and i don't want to upset anyone but this IS MY BLOG and like i have said before its like a journal to me and this is a VERY big step in my life and in Rylee's life so if you are reading this and you have something not so nice to say just keep it to your self and don't ever bring it up i did this because i felt it was the right thing to do. I talked with Nick LOTS of time about it and together we decided to do it.
I went to see my biological dad a few weeks ago....
Many of you know i was adopted and i haven't seen him in years and he texts me like every day all day long asking if he can see Nick, Ry and II i haven't been texting him back because when i was younger he would come in and out of my life and it confused me really bad and i would never want Rylee to have to go through that but i also would never want her mad at me for not letting her see you grandpa.So we went out to his house for dinner and to meet his new girlfriend and her kids. (My little brothers were not there this time but i do see them often!)
I think it went really well he didn't bring anything awkward up ans was very welcoming to us they all loved to see Rylee and to play with her we had a really great time!!!
Like i said before IF YOU READ THIS AND DO NOT AGREE WITH THE DECISION THAT I HAVE MADE PLEASE KEEP IT TO YOUR SELF THANK YOU!!
this makes me happy :) i bed that was a really big step for you and your dad. im proud fee fee :)
ReplyDeleteI guess I don't know that whole situation but I'm not sure how anyone could be mad at you for your decision. You are an adult with your own family and you have to do whats best for you. Sounds like a big step and from my end it sounds like it was a good decison! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks guys it was a good one and it was very hard but im glade i did it!!
ReplyDeleteIgnore the people who don't like this decision. You know what is best for you.. and if you are ready to have him be a part of your life than good for you. I know it was probably way hard.. but imagine the regret you might have if Ry NEVER got a chance to meet him.. ya know?
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